Beware of Do Not Say Men 4 Weaknesses
Meng Meng, 26, married a well-known husband half a year ago, but recently she has been suffering from us.
“The last two days of the Mid-Autumn Festival, we went to see more elderly people and brought some gifts.
My home first, I left two boxes of fine moon cakes, a large bag of imported fruits and two boxes of health products.
As soon as he went out, he saw him old and unhappy.
I asked him what was wrong, and he said that with such a distribution, I only had a box of ordinary moon cakes for less than 100 yuan and a bit of local fruit. It was obvious that he was not good enough for his parents.
After listening to it, I was very disappointed and said that he was fussed. If there were too few things, I would buy some more.
As a result, he really ran to the supermarket next to him and bought a lot of nutrition products. He didn’t even talk to me along the way, and he ignored me until he came out of his parents’ house.The underbelly!
“Does the husband with” good temper “have the other side of” bad temper “?
Mengmen was terrified by this idea.
In fact, the problems she encountered were not special cases. Most of the seemingly gentle, strong, and reasonable men had “untouchable weakness”. The fact also told women that they must not touch the weakness of men.Must be tricky!
”Look at people .” Mindy, 29, is a recognized strong woman in our circle. At 27, she became a sales manager for a well-known brand in Greater China.
Her husband is a college teacher, originally a combination of “Lang Cai Nu Qiang”, but encountered marital conflict due to their own professional development problems.
“Remember now, I also have some disadvantages,” Mindy said.
“我老公在大学里是教金融的，本来我也知道，大学老师的职位是‘熬’出来的，急不得，可有时候看到他捧着个讲师饭碗，评级评职称老是慢别人一Shoot, two thousand yuan salary is still very happy, I will not hit a fire.
Mindy said that the most exaggerated thing was that she was on a phone call with a client and she was so busy that her husband was still there to help her analyze some of the shortcomings of her work plan from a financial perspective.
“When I was in a hurry, I blurted out,‘ you are so capable, why do n’t you make money yourself?
Look at people, my girlfriend’s husband, who is no better than you!
Why did I choose you!
Mindy regretted this, and after a few days wanted to pay her husband for a crime, but found that her husband who was still laughing and laughing turned into a stuffy jar, and he was unwilling to say anything to her.
Voiceover: Husband complains and taunts in the career of senior wives. At this time, the mood is often the coldest.
Therefore, the wife accompanied her every day to “hate iron and steel” to fight against her self-esteem, which led to the bad results of “broken jars and broken downs”. It is better to soothe rather than “don’t be sad, you can .”Buy him some inspirational handbook and so on.
”You never .” Xu Jiajia, 25, recently encountered family responsibility issues.
“I always think that marriage requires two people to spend time in business. In the past six months of marriage, I really gave up a lot.
I used to be lively, but now it has become family first, but he has a good time of self-care.
“Jia Jia is very angry. She originally fell in love with him because of his outgoing and generous character, but his” playfulness “became more intense after marriage.
”You told him to come back early, he always promised, but he still drinks and chats with friends to watch the ball and play cards late into the night.
Jiajia said, “I once caught a cold and was in a bad mood. He went to a brother’s raise celebration, and even made a few phone calls to urge him to come back. He said he would wait for a while.
I got angry and shouted at the phone, ‘you never care about things at home!
It’s never been crazy outside!
Do you know how much I paid for this home?
‘I do n’t know his voice is louder—’Why do I say I never care about my home?
It’s just that you never remember my contribution!
’当晚，他真的就夜不归宿了……” 画外音： 不少女性会因为对丈夫某些生活习惯心存不满，而将怨气导向对婚姻本身的不满，认为对方在婚姻中付出太少，And I like to use the sentence “you will never .” to express the imbalance in my heart.
In fact, we are not willing to be ignored by others, so when you negate him with absolute words, he will naturally not accept it.
Therefore, when you want the other party to enhance their sense of family responsibility, it is better to talk softly, such as “Can you go home early to accompany me?
I can’t sleep without you under the warm blanket . “,” Thanks to your home yesterday, the electric light was broken. Could you please let me learn your cooking skills today?
“This should do more with less.
”How can your mother do this?”Ai and her husband who have been married for more than a year are not in Shanghai, and their parents will take turns to play scheduling after retirement.
In recent months, it happened that Xiao Ai’s mother-in-law has been living in their home.
Everyone was very friendly with each other. Anyway, there was no housework dispute with the aunt.
But within a few days, Xiao Ai discovered that the adult mother-in-law had a flaw she could not stand-“get out of bed.”
“In simple terms, it’s just getting up in the morning and feeling bad about someone else.
Xiao Ai explained, “I couldn’t stand it when she knew that the Shanghai breakfast was bad every morning for three days and her aunt didn’t mop the floor.
“Xiao Ai, who has just joined a new company’s law firm, has a hard job. She feels that there is no reason for her mood to be destroyed for no reason from morning.
“I said to my husband,‘ how can your mother do this?
. ‘I think I just objectively reasoned and told him about her mother-in-law’s problems.
Who knows he listened to the anger, said something I look down on his mother, said that my mother pointed at him when he came, he didn’t say a word, but his mother has been busy all his life to enjoy the blessing, but I hate herAnd so on.
“This makes Xiao Ai very easy. Can’t she even mention the disadvantages of her mother-in-law?
Voice-over: A man with the best temper can provoke unreasonable anger when his mother is questioned, questioned or ridiculed, especially when he also understands that his mother may cause other people’s strange eyes in some aspects.
Therefore, when faced with such a problem, women should not worry about it. Some must use soft language to discuss the tone, similar to “Dear, I think .”; choose the most gentle and neutral words, such as “your mother and othersWell, it is . “; when he was in the best mood, sometimes it was” promotion and salary increase, the team won “. In short, knock around and think twice.
”I say that for your benefit!
Compared with the above three “weak spots”, there is another problem that is more serious.
“Because I am the only child, I really don’t care much about the feelings of others.
Lu Qiao, 26, has always had the habit of “reprimanding” her husband in front of friends.
“One thing he ate without washing his hands, driving too slowly caused our parking spaces to be snatched by others, and the handwritten report was full of typos . Anyway, it’s a trivial matter. I mean, never mind.
Of course, sometimes he may seem unhappy, so I said to him-I say it for your good!
“” Unexpectedly, he was still upset.
Lu Qiao said that some of the husbands and wives quarreled, and her husband moved from small to large. She moved out of him several times in front of friends and relatives, and “accused” her in a tone filled with indignation never before.”Tyranny”-“I’m angry and funny. Are these trivial things so important to men?”
Voice-over: Some wives will often be in the public and show their good governance by counting their husbands.
As a matter of fact, the ancient teachings of “before the child is taught, and after the wife is taught” can be changed-“after the teacher”-fully respected his decent, he is naturally grateful.